Regarding problem

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Okay I`m back, elloz, now to get to it. I`ll post the thread here just cuz, this is regarding the last complaint thread I made. But first let me say this: Ayame; Sorry I didn`t give explanation for shit in that thread, hope ya well.

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Now it seems ppl didn`t know where I was getting at, I`ll just paste a reply to someone`s pm about asking what`s up.

Honestly, in this message I'm not trying to be offensive. I'm sincerely trying to help you out. Just so you know.

I just looked at your complaint thread, along with Kurenai, Beltran, and Koori; and I seriously need to tell you something. None of us know what you're trying to say. I just want you to know that this has been an issue for a while now, and we really need you to be more direct. Don't be so round-about, just tell us what you're trying to say.

It should be pretty obvious, I mean some of the stuff should be known without saying really. But I admit the other stuff wasn`t direct, reason is because it was incomplete so the explanations weren`t there.

Now I`m guessing that ya`ll are wondering about the solution I gave up to say. Simple: the problem is there are ppl that are giving others shit. Not gonna give a list of names, since it really looks like it became a general problem. And that problem is added with that some staff are giving others shit. For fuck sakes, you know that virtually every single former-member of NFRP I talked to all said they left because of that. Every single one. And you probably hadn`t heard I was actually banned from posting in the hello & goodbye threads just cuz I at times give a heads up to the problem. And to let ya know I have never said that it was cuz they were lazy or blah blah, was talking about that the new member might come across ppl that may give them shit and no one is gonna do anything about it.

In matter of fact, I don`t think I ever said anything about staff at all. It was mostly the general thing of ppl been giving others shit just because they don`t like them.


My solution was to make something to add to the complaint template that is only to be used if it`s an issue about another member. I showed that I gave labels, on how to label the situation and the idea of the problem. What I didn`t put is the 2nd part of it which I didn`t even typed up yet. It was gonna be toward staff in particular. System with Warning, Demotion, and Fired: it was gonna be a special kind of thing that good staff members like tie or belly won`t have to worry about anything, even if they might get in a fuss with someone, they are still good ppl. The only ones that should ever have to worry is ppl like logi, cuz he goes out of his way to give others shit he doesn`t like. Get it?




^ that what I had replied. Now just to clarify just a tad, yes the former-members usually had that 1 person they really didn`t like but it wasn`t just that, they also could see the general problem. The whole ppl been giving others shit that they don`t like.

Also to clarify what I did gave up to say in the complaint thread concerning the higher staff. I point attention to them because for the simple fact that they were higher-staff, because it meant they must have the most power then anyone else on the site. You guys ever head of that saying, "With great power come with great responsibility"? They are typically ultimately the biggest help to fix a problem with the site. But, if they are aren`t in the right track, the whole site comes to shit. Take for example, a pyramid and looking at the structure of this pyramid you can see at the bottom is the most important thing to this big thing, the foundation.

If the foundation to this pyramid were to be fucked with and crumble, the rest of the entire pyramid would come down as well. Now think of the higher-staff to be the foundation of the site. Yes, it is true that there is no point if there are no members rping on a rp site. But think about it, could you imagine ppl would want to come and be in a place that is so fucked up and twisted? Like imagine that rules are so screwy that ppl can`t rp properly. Or that the site is very glitchy and the site deletes a post that someone was about to post.

You know what I`m saying now? What if there was a site that is local to a black neighborhood and the high-staff are kkk members? Ya get what I`m saying? If the foundation of something, or the basics of something, is not right then the whole thing that it holds is also not going to be right. Like if the foundation of a building is twisted then the whole building is going to be twisted.



I really want to see this ppl going out of the way to give others they don`t like shit end. Since I`m back, I`ll be continuing my attempts to help to rid of this problem. With the solution I came up with, with labels and how to acknowledge the situation of an issue between ppl were to come to the complaint threads. And another part if it involves someone that is of staff. Because really, if there was a hardcore racist as a staff and gives shit to anyone of a diff color, don`t ya think that should be dealt with? I will say what I mention before, if my solution would to be installed, good members like tie or belly and the like should never ever worry about this even if they do get in a scruff with someone, if it`s understandable and not so often, they should be snuggly in their staff position.

And ask yourself this, would you want someone that just waits until his warnings wear off until he can go and give you shit again? And it seems no one can fucking see that, especially if it`s a staff member. That is way I put in a labeling system, to give knowledge of how they can see a difference of why the person is giving the other shit. Between, "I`m just having a bad day", to, "I just don`t fucking like you".

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I heard Ayame got shot, and is hospital at the moment. If so then I doubt she will be posting for anybody in a bit.

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Wow, damn.


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Okay, just to be clear on this: I don`t want to replace all the staff members. Like c`mon, I`m only talking about those bad apples that made it through becoming staff and that won`t knock it off. I understand there may be more tolerance for some ppl that became staff in the first place because there was a shortage of staff, though even the tolerance should have a limit.

And i`m not saying everyone should just love and have an orgy. It shouldn`t be a problem if someone hates another person and may go off at them from time to time, ppl should have their own views on other ppl cuz it`s their right. But if they keep giving them shit and won`t knock it off that may become a problem.


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now you may notice I can`t say shit directly or else I`ll have to explain things first. Now to clear something else up a tad: The whole point of the solution, with the labeling, is ppl need to have a better grasp of an issue ever to arise. You may think this shit ain`t needed cuz staff can get punished too. Okay, good. Why the fuck hasn`t it happened before, regarding that it was from an issue that the person was giving another shit? Hey, let me clarify what I mean by that, if someone were to say if they were happy yet their face has a big frown or a scowl on their face would you believe that they were happy? If that person was happy they sure as hell weren`t emanating that and just counter-acts that statement cuz of that big unhappy look on their face.

You get it? When someone says a statement and the evidence they show actually counter-acts that their statement isn`t true, then it should be obvious that the statement isn`t true cuz the evidence sure as hell doesn`t emanate that the statement is true. Honestly, would you guys believe someone was happy with fresh scars on their wrists and a big frown on their face? You get it now? There`s a quote from a guy that I cannot spell but it goes like this, "To know and not to do is not to know". I`ll clarify that: If there was a filthy hobo wandering the streets and he has the secrets, the knowledge, the know how of the ways and skills to become wealthy... why the hell is he a hobo and not wealthy? Don`t ya get what I`m saying?

I`ve met people that actually knows a thing or two but there were no evidence and usually counter-evidence that they are just total morons. And there may be alot of reason why, like they may have absolutely no motivation for example but lets not get into that.

Now, what I come to conclude of why there is no evidence of this whole main problem I`ve been talking about in this thread: is that ppl don`t have the knowledge or much better grasp needed to label a situation of an issue. Look, it`s pretty easy to see if someones joking or just an asshole, if they are having a bad day, or just don`t like someone. But, it`s just that it`ll be much better if ppl gotten a better grasp and knowledge of how to label someone, be at a higher level at telling apart of what`s what.

I`ll give a good and excellent example, go read the first complaint I ever made. Look at my post, I`ve explained and label a single phrase what the person said that is actually evidence that the person is a complete bastard or that that evidence is what bastards emanate. That phrase "*sigh* just admit you wrong", <- that phrase. And guess what, now everyone is being knowledgeable that he is a fucking asshole. Oh, he`s not you say? Well why the fuck has he been giving me shit?

Ya know, no offense to the ppl I`m about to turn to, but: There are guys out there that needs to have a better grasp at reading as well. Because I`m pretty sure that I type enough stuff, I know the times when I don`t explain enough and such, to allow someone to understand. So it`s either I need to clarify more or that some ppl need to get better at reading. And I can say a thing or two about how someone in their teen years could be not so great at reading of when they are definitely not retards. But lets not get into that. Hey, if I need to clarify stuff I will from now on, just understand why I havn`t so much before, look at this whole post again if you need to to get how much typing this is.

Oh, and one more thing, I`m not saying that everyone should be L here. The knowledge and the grasp of labeling an issue just needs to be the next stage of that. Ya may have to get used to apply it but yeah ain`t that hard.

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Blah blah blah well anyways, I`ve decided to approach this matter in a different way. I`m not going to say much and I am not going to clarify. But I`m going to have to do this 1 person at a time. Going to start really slow but in time it`ll spread out alot more quicker until finally it`s common knowledge at this site. Then at that time I`ll propose something in a written form. For new members to read and for old members to answer questions that the new may have about it.

For those, probably very few, members that were curious about this. I made this post just to inform you readers.