This is okay?

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Name: Kaizu
Age: 16.
Gender: Male.
Incident Link: ---
Complaint: Mistreatment.

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06/04/14 07:53
Aimi Kaguya: Wub you too Pinka ^^
06/04/14 07:52
Pinkamena: Love you Aimi <3
06/04/14 07:52
Aimi Kaguya: Pinka, you should get to know me better - my lack of compassion will absolutely *Appall* you
06/04/14 07:52
Ranzu: If you throw a man in a room filled with a thousand spiders for a day, of all different species of course, and then let him out after that day...well, he will know no fear for the rest of his life.
06/04/14 07:52
Kaizu: there is an official phobia of nuclear weaponry
06/04/14 07:52
Kaizu: some phobias i find kind of ridiculous[/quote]

This is okay?

This is actually okay?

I was having a perfectly reasonable conversation. I was not directing any sort of offensive words at anyone, I was not flaming, nor baiting, nor trolling. I was mistreated, by not only having my perfectly reasonable post deleted (and not, mind you, in any spirit of fun) and thereafter threatened with a ban.

06/04/14 07:56
Kochou: It is why I gave you a warning

And apparently, this was a mercy.

I was encouraged to stop talking about it, without any sort of vindication, or apology. Because yes, I deserve an apology. Not to be told to stop. As I mentioned, I would have been more inclined had he merely asked me to stop, not just gone and deleted my posts without any consideration for how I might feel about that.

I ask again: This is okay? It's okay that, rather than having to answer for a gross overreaction, having to answer for inventing a rule and enforcing it in the extreme where it does not exist and generally abusing me, Kochou is allowed to continue with this (as he states he perfectly intends to do), and not only that, but Solus is not even allowed to reprimand him for it? Why would that be?

And the best part is, mere minutes after I stopped talking, the subject of rape was explicitly talked about in a manner that wasn't mature whatsoever, and nobody was threatened with a banning or had their posts removed for that.

Sorry, am I in the wrong here? What did I miss? If he really wants me to not even use the word 'retardation', I'll consider it. But that's all I'm obligated to do.[/ul]

Solution:

[/i] that he's still allowed to do this. Please stop him from doing this.[/ul]

[|Ayame Unbound|]

Its not okay, what you did. The word itself is highly offensive, it is akin to using a racial slur, except for people with mental problems. Especially when it offends someone. Ko had every right as a mod to tell you to stop using it as opposed to asking. He didn't ban you on the spot, he gave you a warning, which considering the box is zero tolerance he didn't have to do.

Furthermore you then say

Kaizu: That doesn't mean you can ban people for it, idiot.

Clearly baiting/flaming him. You honestly should have been banned from the CBox.

On top of that you make this thread, where clearly you don't have a calm head considering the cursing, and make it a point to use that word again, even go so far as to italicize it to drive home the point?

Absolutely not. Using that word is actually considered hate speech and right now you're clearly trying to use it to drive home a point. Ko had every right to tell you to stop, the same as he would had you used some sort of racial slur.

After he told you to stop, and you rebutted AND called him an idiot all he did was calmly explain his stance while you went off on a tirade.

So no, you will not receive an apology and it is okay.

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......

Well I don't know about you, but I can swear and have a calm head. I do it all the fuckin' time.

Also, you missed the entire point. Like, I don't even have an appropriate metaphor for how far you missed it.

He did not ask.

He did not approach me as a human being and kindly ask me not to use the word, he wiped it and threatened to erase my c-box existence for a week. This is... fair warning? Are you joking? Because I'm laughing.

Again. He took action, not me. He swung first; fired first. I was not using the word at him. I had not done anything to him before he had done something to me. The logical conclusion is that he answers for his actions, right? I speak, of course, under the assumption that I do in fact live on the same planet as you. I'll try and explain it in case we are not:

Yes, I got heated. But he started the whole thing.

Also, if we are so strict on word usage in the C-box, why were the people who used the word rape not treated the same? He did not delete their posts, nor threaten to ban them. In fact, I seem to recall nobody did. Spoilers: Because that's unreasonable, and unfair. Sort of like my case, as it happens.

[|Ayame Unbound|]

He deleted something offensive, and told you not to do it again. That's perfectly reasonable. I did the same thing to Yoshi last month for using a rather bad racial slur which she didn't realize was offensive.

It really doesn't matter who that was directed at, its hate speech pure and simple. As a mod he has every right to do that with any forms of hate speech or anything similar. That word is censored from TV shows because it is derogatory.

It doesn't matter if I say 'Yeah so I was talking to some ni**er" to a friend of mine who doesn't care. If someone else hears that, does that mean they can't be offended because I didn't say it in relation to them?

[|Ayame Unbound|]

Spoke with staff about this. 33 issued and Cbox banned for one week.

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?

[Deleted]

Oh my, is this Kaizu guy baiting Ayame into giving him a 66%?
Should just have just accepted that it was a derogatory term bro, even if used in an off-hand manner. I to am deeply offended by it.

[|Ayame Unbound|]

Luke I suggest stopping before you earn yourself a punishment for spamming.

What is the question in there Kaizu?

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sigh

[|Ayame Unbound|]

Uhm, does that mean lockable then?

[Deleted]

it means im sighing

[|Ayame Unbound|]

I'll take that as you have nothing further to say on this matter then and lock it.