So there is this girl...

[Hibiki™]

And i want to ask some questions if anyone could help me,




i like this girl, and im pretty sure she likes me. but she just got out of a relationship 1/2 year ago. He was her first everything and she is still attached to him. For some reason he dumped her and he was not only her bf but her best friend at the time. and now they hardly talk.

what should i do?

[::Himiko::]

Jun 23, 2008 21:43:59 GMT -7 Hibiki™ said:

And i want to ask some questions if anyone could help me,




i like this girl, and im pretty sure she likes me. but she just got out of a relationship 1/2 year ago. He was her first everything and she is still attached to him. For some reason he dumped her and he was not only her bf but her best friend at the time. and now they hardly talk.

what should i do?

Wait, she's been out of the relationship for a 1/2 year now?
mmmh....If i knew how close to her you were, i could better analyze the situation.

But with the given info, here we go:

Your friend must still have some feelings about this guy since she had so many first experiences with him no?
This makes things complicated as she is going to basically use him as the standard of things.

By standards, i mean she'll basically compare everything in every other relationship she'll have from now on, on the one she had with that guy... since he was the first

catch my drift?

The best thing you could do in my opinion is show her a real great time. Bond with her alot.
Let her have have the feeling that their are other people in this world that could make her happy, besides her old boy friend.

Once she feels comfortable around you, and your sure that she likes you more then ever... pop the question and date. n.n

PS: I am not a relationship expert here, I will admit that. But i hope you can use what i've said here to the best of your ability.

Pps: if i had more info, i could help more. If you find what i said to you intresting...pm me if you like

[Suzaku]

Jun 23, 2008 21:43:59 GMT -7 Hibiki™ said:

And i want to ask some questions if anyone could help me,




i like this girl, and im pretty sure she likes me. but she just got out of a relationship 1/2 year ago. He was her first everything and she is still attached to him. For some reason he dumped her and he was not only her bf but her best friend at the time. and now they hardly talk.

what should i do?

Agree with Himako, she remains attached to the first male, though if you continue to bond with her and remain by her side she will eventually noticed you, or atleast I hope. Though I've been in many relationships, and if you simply remain by someone side no matter what and bond with them, alot of good comes to be. Just follow our past poster's advise there =P she may not be an expert but neither am I. Though if you need some help with poetry or wooing her in the near future, I'd be glad to assist you. =]

I can relate to the female though in the sense that

She broke up with me for my best friend and now they are engaged, she was my first and dumped me for my best friend and I see them all the time, so it hurts alot but others come along and you get attracted to there persona and then attraction often happens and blah next thinf you know ur heads over heals in love with the cloest person.

None the less best of luck.

[Ooinaru Shigai]

Haha thank you guys sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much. and im deff. going to pm you himiko.